Why shall we converse?

There is no doubt that the family conversations is the tool that is able to make a psychological and emotional communication between family members. It opens the space widely to them to gather on the conversation table discussing their ideas and listening to each other point of view. And since family unity and the strong relationship between the family is the correct choice of the parents in every time and place, the conversation window is the correct path to strengthen family bonding and giving the psychological and emotional support to reach that goal. Why shall we converse? First: To spread positive ambiance in the house, and to stimulate the hearty feelings, and to achieve a perceptible psychological connection between family members. Second: To depend on the conversation style as a primary language of effectiveness on the other person, in a way that respects the feelings without hurting the human soul dignity, or humiliating it, or underestimating it. Third: To follow the logical method in handling the problems and the other family members’ points of views, with quitting the pressure style, verbal violence, and actual violence towards family members. Fourth: To provide the right amount of clarity between family members in their home environment, and to spread the ambiance of honesty and trust between them on the way that uplifts the value of the family in their hearts, and to make it the safe haven for adults and children together. Fifth: We converse to enrich our children’s vocabulary and to let them use their vocabulary balance so their language grows, and their balance of words doubles along with their self-confidence. Sixth: we converse to train our children’s brains, and to get them used to thinking, analyzing, discussing and concluding, which will uplift them from negative receiving to positive interacting with what they hear and happen to them in life. Seventh: We converse to cure the negative behavior of the children, and to explain to them the fact about it, and to help them quit it. Eighth: We converse to make our children get used to solving their problems with the others by the conversation as the first and most important tool that cannot be skipped or neglected by using other means. Ninth: To protect our children from having a weak emotional immunity that will cause them diseases by the lack of emotions, which will lead them to satisfy their emotions by the wrong methods that will cause reversed results were not on their accounts. Tenth: We converse because an open ear means an open heart. by Maryam Abdullah Alnaymi All rights reserved maryam.doha@hotmail.com